If you've never had anal sex you may have a lot of questions about it. It's confusing because, on the one hand, it seems to be a more taboo, less frequently practiced kind of sex, one that requires special knowledge and care. And on the other, if you believe what you see in pornography, anal sex is just like any other kind of sex, no condoms, no mess, no communication required. The truth is somewhere in the middle. Anal sex may still be taboo but that's a social and cultural thing, it isn't anything about the sex itself. People can have anal sex that is as safe, pleasurable and fun as any other kind of sexual activity. And anal sex does require communication, will involve condoms most of the time and it can be a bit messier.
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Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. So you want to try anal sex, but you're freaked out by the probably inevitable reality of poop. That's totally understandable, it's something that can be present during anal sex , and it's not exactly glamourous. But rest assured that it's not usually that big of a deal.
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1. Is it safe for the partner to ejaculate during anal sex?
Which means you prooobably have a few questions. Using lube is a must during anal play, Joseph Frankhouse , M. Anal penetration without adequate lubrication can cause the tissue in your anus to tear. Still, adding a ton of lube to the mix makes you less likely to tear and more likely to have fun. When it comes to lube , you pretty much have three options: oil-based, silicone-based, and water-based. Oil-based and silicone-based lubes are thicker and longer-lasting, making them great for anal play. Not all toys are anal-safe! Other than that, sex educator Jill McDevitt , Ph.
Anal sex can be tricky. It comes with a lot of how s and what s and do s that many might switch over to their private browser to search for. And while you may have some embarrassing questions about the logistics of backdoor play , know that you should never be ashamed about any of your curiosities, because chances are many others are probably thinking the same thing. To get all of your questions answered, we asked the best person for the job. Alicia Sinclair , clinical sexologist and founder of b-Vibe anal products, didn't hold back in any of her responses — including the inevitable question about pooping during anal sex. However, you may find that fecal matter is transferred to the fingers, sex toy, or penis if you haven't taken any steps to rinse out the anal canal. If you want more insurance that your playtime will be clean, enema bulbs are often the easiest way to be poop-free. You can try a reusable one, or you can use a disposable enema available at any drug store.